is there a video or something were i can learn how to over clock
Tons of them. Just Google srarch overclocking your component. There are also forums and reviews with overclock settings testing. The key to any overclocking os small increment increases and testing for functionailty and heat with a stressing program. I can not tell you "safe overclock settings" because I have no experience with the 6600k but it's a blast to get the settings right.
Gotta say it was really fun to see a 3570k go to GHz boot and run fine, but I chickened out and reduced it to 4.5 on my oldest son's big pc.
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